28 December 2006

Jaded & Cynical


Hello from Jerusalem! Am on ill-advised and thus doomed and fated family holiday, which has ended in disaster and an early flight home tomorrow. My trusty BlackBerry is broken, I am so exhausted from the last year's hectic schedule of working ridiculous hours and constantly travelling abroad for business that I have been sleeping most of the time, which is just as well as it is so cold here and has been snowing. I am visiting my grandmother in her old age home, and am caught in the middle of a pointless feud between her and her best friend of 80 years; and her first words when my mum and I walked into her flat and she saw how much weight I have lost in the last year were "oh my god, it's not anorexia, is it?". My sisters have suddenly become best friends and are both ignoring me, and I am so tired that I think I'm having yet another quarter-life crisis in which I wonder why I work so bloody hard and what it's leading to. A tiny part of me is beginning to question whether I even want to be a lawyer anymore.

After yet another doomed non-relationship a couple of months ago, adding to my growing bundle of emotional baggage and general cynicism (about which I have been too traumatised to blog), I have given up on the men front, and in the meantime have been put in touch with a lawyer for career advice. His advice has basically been "don't do it" - and this from a whizz kid who is bloody good at his job and became a partner in his firm at the tender age of 32. Thing is though that I think I'm really falling for him...

I'm sure things will get better soon, and when I'm back in London, I'll be able to compile a light-hearted, reflective synopsis of 2006. For now, though, I can't wait to see the back of this year.

Happy New Year, Everyone!

23 December 2006

2006


So like L I will blog about 2006. I am sat in the lounge at my sister's house, with bright Aussie sunshine outside (although it rained earlier today!) so it is hard to even believe I have just lived through a year in the UK, as I slot into a different rhythm and pace. I loved Melbourne so much, it would be amazing to live there. Such incredible restaurants, cafes, museums, galleries and parks. And also I met Harold Bishop! I am enjoying Sydney too, but it is definitely more of an airhead city - Los Angeles to Melbourne's New York.

Most memorable moment of 2006: Having a song written about me (it's entitled Ballymena Boy. Maybe one day it will be a number one
hit!)

Best meal of 2006: The New Angel, Dartmouth, July

Most idyllic moment: Sat in the sunshine drinking beer with J and J at bar QuatAmare with sofas just plonked on the sand and the sea gently lapping in the distance, watching the sunset, after a wonderful day looking at art and eating pasta, the Lido, Italy.

Greatest achievement of 2006: Touch wood, no broken limbs this year.

Funniest moment of 2006: getting the pilot's beer after complaining about the lack of alcohol on the flight from Bologna to London

Biggest disappointment of 2006: Cancelling my trip to NY just to go to an interview in Reading and then not getting the job anyway. Huh.

Best film of 2006: Tough one this. It's not been a stand out year. I enjoyed Volver very much, and Le temps qui reste, but neither of these are vintage Almodovar or Ozon respectively. I did discover Pauline a la plage on DVD which is a film I adore.

Best book of 2006: Until I Find You by John Irving. I laughed, I cried, it became a part of me.

Best exhibition of 2006: For sheer interest and discovering something totally new, Howard Arkely: Carnival in Suburbia at the National Gallery of Victoria, Melbourne.

2006 has been a surprisingly good year, with mucho foreign travel (Italy, New York, Australia) and living for a few months in London. Not much has changed in my life on the surface, but it has been a happy, fulfilling year on the whole, and for that I am very blessed and grateful. It's good to take stock every now and again and realise just how lucky I am.

Wishing you all a very very happy 2007.

Queer Thai for the Straight Guy


My main reflection on life in Sydney is to be amazed that gay men seem to have cornered the market in Thai restaurants! This has lead to many many amusing names for Thai restaurants - they seem to name Thai restaurants over here they way we do hairdressers at home. So, for example: Thai riffic; Thai titanic; Thai M to Eat; and my personal favourite, outrageously decorated with black leather and pink frills, Thai Me Up, Thai Me Down!

14 December 2006

Oz celebs


Yesterday, driving a purple Volvo... Harold Bishop!! (aka Ian Smith). Also met Jannelle Timmins(don't know actresses' name). Admittedly I was on a tour of the studios where Neighbours (and Prisoner Cell Block H) is filmed, but still! Harold!

10 December 2006

KL experiences


Most surreal KL moment: walking along Jalan Patelang, the tackiest street in Chinatown ("Gucci" bags for two dollars, anyone?), I was stopped by a group of four very earnest Malay teenagers. I thought they were doing some kind of tourism survey, in manner of v boring GCSE geography project. But no! They were doing a survey on -wait for it- sex education!! So I was asked by the one boy in the group (the bravest and the one who had the best English) if I thought sex education in school was a good idea. Apparantly this is a big hot potato in KL at the moment. I tried to get them to tell me what they thought, but they also just nodded and stared at me with big eyes. As if I have any opinion on sex education in Kuala Lumpur! I said I didn't want to say what should happen in their country, but they insisted, so I suggested being informed generally is a good thing. They nodded earnestly then took my photo for the school newspaper!

Most disappointing KL moment: Going into the KLCC shopping centre and discovering the biggest shop in it was Marks and Spencers. Bloody globalisation, did not travel 7,000 miles just to see Per Una clothing. Did like being able to buy a tall skinny Caramel Frappuccino from the Starbucks on site though. Hmmm...

Most interesting sight in KL: On the 'Star' LRT, a woman in a hijab breast feeding a child. No-one on the train paid any attention to her naked breast. Thought how strange it was that a woman was covering her hair, an act read in a v specific way in the uk (esp thanks to Mr Straw), yet breast feeding her child in public, something I have never once seen on the tube in London.

Most interesting newspaper article: there is a huge debate occuring in KL at the moment about the local government's decision in a certain province to fine women who 'dress indecently'. Huge amount of correspondance in the local paper about this, ranging from 'it's terrible to try and control women' to 'men should learn self-control' to 'men are simply trying to protect women.'Such has been the outcry that the legislation has been changed to affect only Muslim women.

Most amazing thing about KL: The incredibly wide choice of breakfast food stuffs. Loved having dim sum for breakfast. Thanks to jet lag, I had temporarily turned into D, being unable to sleep beyond 4:30 am and watching dawn every morning. i was also starving in the morning (this NEVER happens normally).

Most expensive thing in KL: Proportionally, the beer. A can of Heineken drunk by the hotl swimming pool cost me as much as 1) the high speed train from the airport to the city centre or 2) three times as much as my Starbucks coffee or 3) as much as a two course lunch. Not the place to be if you are a budding alcoholic.

Best value thing in KL: the incredible foot massage I had. It was cheaper than the beer (see above), lasted over half an hour, and my feet felt feather light by the end. It was madly painful - almost too painful to bear - I had no idea someone's hands could prod and poke so harshly! - but it totally removed the sluggish just been on a 13 hour flight feeling. I'm going back on my return.

Most small world moment: The assistant manager in the hotel's Chinese restaurant, Jackie, spent three years living in Manor house, just off the Holloway road. He loved clubbing in Camden. he told me to go the Hsieu Shen restaurant in Holborn, tell them I know Jackie, and I will get a free meal - apparantly! Later when I got the bill, I found they'd left off half what I had and not charged me for the drink. Bless. I think he was worred I was lonely, and told me to come and see him if I needed a chat. Must say as white girl alone I stood out in KL.

Best thing about being in KL: Experiencing properly for the first time being the racial Other. Noticing how much I noticed other Europeans, and how instantly recognisable we were. Seeing how we could all 'look the same' and realising the diversity of Malay looks, clothing and behaviours.